THIS is how to avoid heartbreak

by | Jul 1, 2022

I want to help you avoid something that can truly break your heart…

I’m not talking about a relationship break up or losing a loved one or pet.

It’s something we’ve all done to ourselves, but once you recognize it, you can stop it from happening.

And the side effect is that your life, relationships, purpose, income, and success will improve dramatically.

It’s related to what I hear from people who say they finally want to make a big change in their life.

They’re starting to shift and change and do the work, but then I hear them say…

Michelle, I’m having such a hard time with making this change in my life.
I don’t know if I can do this.
It’s never going to happen for me.
Nothing’s working!

First of all, I get it. When you’re going for something greater than your current reality, it’s going to temporarily feel like things are falling apart.

(There’s a scientific explanation behind this phenomenon that I’ll save for another day. ?)

Second, the problem is if you start to say and believe these things, you’ll likely STOP doing the work. You’ll stop showing up.

Here’s the truth… when you stop showing up for your life, your life stops showing up for you.

So… I’m going to give you some surprising advice to change this that you might even resist, but it’s vital for building the passion and courage in your heart to create the life you truly want.

If you’re not ready to go in 100% to make a change in your life, don’t do it.

Yup, don’t don’t it.

But Michelle, I really want to have _______ in my life!

If you’re not showing up regularly, learning, falling on your face a bunch of times, and moving past the fear, resistance, and excuses, the truth is…

You don’t want it bad enough.

You stopped showing up, so Life stopped showing up for you.

Some part of you is more committed to the comfort and familiarity of your misery.

Look, I say this with no judgment, and I encourage you to not judge yourself either.

First, we do this subconsciously, without conscious awareness.

Second, if you feel judged, that’s just an egoic side of yourself that is still concerned with what everyone else thinks.

(BTW…I’m very familiar with that part of myself!)

SO… if you’re ready to change and bring a new reality into your life… go in 110%.

Drop the excuses, wipe off the tears, get in there, and let your heart and passion burst open as the person who already has the things they want.

And here’s the important lesson related to your gorgeous heart…


When you say you’re going to do something, and the next day you don’t do it and the same thing happens the day after that, you’re breaking trust with yourself.


This is heartbreaking.

I learned this about 15 years ago when I started practicing energy medicine through the BodyTalk System.

When we break promises to ourselves, it’s actually hard on our physiological heart. It also breaks one of the “energy consciousness” states of the heart, which is trust.

Trusting in showing up when you say you’re going to is one of the biggest determiners of success and happiness.

Think of how it would feel when someone would tell you, hey I’m gonna do this with you tomorrow. And then they keep neglecting to show up.

Wouldn’t that feel heartbreaking?

Would that make you feel like this person really is never going to show up?

Would you trust them the next time they said that?

This is literally what happens in your heart and body mind, when you force yourself to do something you’re not ready for or when you say you’re going to do something and deep down inside you still don’t believe you’re worthy to step into a new chapter of your life.

So if you’re ready to commit, go for it. Prove to yourself that you’re worth it.

If not, drop it. Don’t pressure yourself. But just stay in tune with your greatness because I guarantee you, it’s wanting to burst out in this beautiful lifetime you have.


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